я сдался....
есть рабочая апликуха https://code.google.com/p/a2dp-connect/downloads/detail?name=com.gctp.locale.a2dpconnect.apk
естьее исходники https://code.google.com/p/a2dp-connect/downloads/detail?name=a2dpConnectPlugin.zip&can=2&q=

есть вот такой патчик
$ diff src/com/gctp/setting/rhttps://code.google.com/p/a2dp-connect/downloads/detail?name=a2dpConnectPlugin.zip&can=2&q=

естьвот такой патчик
$ diff src/com/gctp/setting/receiver/FireReceiver.java src/com/gctp/setting/receiver/FireReceiver.java.bak
177,178d176
< if (ibta != null && ibta.getSinkState(device) != 0)
< ibta.disconnectSink(device);
187,188d184
< if (ibta != null && ibta.getConnectionState(device) != 0)
< ibta.disconnect(device);